The step-by-step blueprint to navigate the recruiting process, stand out, and get offers from college coaches



How much would it mean to you to see your daughter playing on scholarship at the school of her dreams, all while earning an education?

I have great news for your family…

If she wants to learn how to navigate the college recruiting process, get on college coaches’ radar, and get a scholarship to play soccer in college, then you’re in the right place.

Listen, there are nearly 400,000 girls high school soccer players in the US.

Of all of those girls who want to play soccer in college, only 7% will make it there.

If you HOPE that what your daughter is doing right now is good enough to play in college, then good luck.

On the other hand… if she is serious about playing at the next level and accepts the help and mentorship to get there, the opportunities are endless.

I’ve spent the last year creating and refining the ultimate college recruiting resource to help your daughter achieve her dream.

After I share it with you, she’ll be able to:

  • Confidently identify her top 30 schools
  • Be successful when choosing & attending ID Camps
  • Confidently email and communicate with college coaches
  • Play with confidence in front of college coaches
  • Have a game plan for an academic scholarship
  • Take the proper steps to achieve an athletic scholarship

The program you’re about to learn about outshines, outranks, and outclasses anything you stack up against it.                                                                                                                                              

Keep reading, because even if you don’t want to admit it, without a mentor, her chances of getting recruited are slim.

I’m Coach Shay Haddow.

I’ve spent the last 12 years going through the recruiting process myself, playing division I soccer, working in Division I athletics, and now helping girls like your daughter achieve their dream of playing college soccer.

Growing up, it was always my dream to play soccer at the Divison I level.

The only problem was, in order to afford tuition at most big schools, I needed to get a scholarship.

With the help of my coach and mentor, I was blessed to have been able to achieve my dream and experience the life of a Divison I athlete.

Soccer was the vehicle that allowed me to have the unforgettable experiences of playing soccer in college, but even more so, it allowed me the opportunity to earn my degrees without having to hold a job, ask my parents for money, or get buried in student loans.


The most important thing your daughter can do while playing college soccer is to earn an education at a school she loves.

College athletics has the reputation of being all glitz and glam, emphasizing the athlete before the student…

When in reality, the whole point of playing at the collegiate level is to better her future by earning a degree.

Playing soccer is the vehicle to get her there without having to pay tens of thousands of dollars in tuition!

 … or even worse, stacking up an insurmountable amount of debt in student loans that will haunt her for years to come.

But the truth is, getting an athletic scholarship is not easy.

Many girls, even with the talent, will not even get looked at by college coaches.

It boils down to these 3 reasons…


This is the number 1 reason why I started helping girls with the college recruiting process.

There is a huge disconnect between clubs and families when it comes to educating players on what they need to do in order to get recruited.

Most families that I work with now, had no knowledge of how the recruiting process works, and what resources are out there to help their daughter.

Bottomline, if you don’t know how the recruited process works (or have a mentor that she can work with), your daughter won’t get recruited.


There are thousands of extremely talented players all around the world that don’t get recruited, simply because don’t have the work ethic or desire to make it a priority.

It doesn’t matter how talented, fast, or strong your daughter is…

…if she doesn’t put in the work to communicate and be evaluated by college coaches, then her chances of getting recruited are slim to none.


Can you feel it yet??

The stress building up as you think about how much work must be done for your daughter to get recruited and earn a scholarship?

Many parents feel overwhelmed with the recruited process and take the brunt of it upon themselves to make it happen.

I can tell you first hand, that it won’t work.

Yes, you can and should be educated on the process, but it shouldn’t be your job to make sure your daughter gets recruited.

It’s her job…

…and that’s why I’m here, to provide your daughter tools, direction, and mentorship she needs without paying outrageous fees for recruiting services.

Imagine how great you will feel when your daughter has a mentor to help her through the process, so she can earn an education while doing what she loves!


The Ultimate College Recruiting Program for Competitive Girls Soccer Players

The Confident Recruit is the ultimate college recruiting blueprint to show your daughter step-by-step, how to navigate the recruiting process, stand out, and get offers from college coaches.

It’s going to revolutionize the way your family thinks about the college recruiting process.

I’ve had great successes throughout my coaching career but “The Confident Recruit” is by far THE BEST work I’ve ever done.

This isn’t just another online course. It’s the most inclusive college recruiting program out there, specifically for female soccer players.

The Confident Recruit includes:

  • 15 high-value content videos
  • Weekly Action Plans
  • Custom email and resume templates
  • An extensive resource library
  • Custom mentorship
  • And so much more….

I’ve laid out every possible step that your daughter needs to take over the next 12+ weeks to get recruited by her dream school.

Whether she has already begun the recruiting process (and is confused), or she’s just getting started, I’m confident that this is the best college recruiting resource out there to help her:

  1. Gain insight into which division best suits her
  2. Develop her top 30 schools to contact
  3. Get on college coaches’ radar
  4. Locate and attend the best college ID camps
  5. Confidently email college coaches
  6. Create engaging resumes that sell
  7. Develop a structured academic plan for success
  8. Learn what to say when communicating with college coaches

"The soccer training my daughter received from Alpha Girl Soccer has reshaped her play style and ignited her love for the game.  So when Shay told us about the college recruiting program she was starting, it was a no brainier for us to join. Shay taught my daughter how to prepare administratively, mentally and eliminated her fear of the process. Not only did my daughter have emails ready for coaches, she motivated and built her confidence in signing up and playing in her first college ID camp.  Shay answers the "love for the game" for a player and removes doubt they have in their ability. She empowers them by educating them on the tools they need for the college levels they desire to play in. I am excited to continue to watch my daughter grow in the sport she loves so much, with the help of Shay and Alpha Girl Soccer. I would highly recommend to her college recruiting program!"

-Damon Brown

Soccer Dad and Coach


"Often times, parents end up being confused about the recruiting process and spend thousands of dollars on "recruiting services" that lead them and their child nowhere. Shay simplifies how to get recruited and I highly recommend her online program that clearly breaks down each step your daughter needs to take. It's the most effective program I've seen after over a decade of coaching."

-Coach Ben


"My daughter knew that she wanted to play soccer at the college level, however we had no clue where or when to start the process. With Coach Shay's help in this program she has shown us how to look into colleges and how to reach out to get noticed. We have learned great tools to be successful with our college journey."

-Jennifer Burcher

Soccer Mom


Module 1: Recruiting 101

  • What it takes to play college soccer
  • Identify which Division best suits your goals
  • What college coaches look for in a player


Module 2: Getting on Coaches' Radar

  • How to build a massive database of your top 30 schools
  • How to be evaluated at tournaments
  • How to find and be successful at college ID camps
  • How to create a resume that sells


Module 3: Confident Communication

  • Communication rules overview
  • How to confidently email college coaches
  • Learn what to say to college coaches in person and over the phone


 Module 4: Academics and Scholarships

  • GPA and Test score requirements
  • Exact steps to follow to make sure you’re eligible to play and get accepted
  • Game plan for athletic and academic scholarships


Module 5: Program Bonuses

  • Everything you need to know about highlight videos
  • Program Resources

Tour of the Members Only Area

Simply click play to view the online membership area that your daughter will have immediate access to!


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Access into the members only area with every resource needed to get recruited

In depth video training on EXACTLY what to do to get recruited

Done for you email and resume templates

Dedicated email support

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1on1 Mentorship add-on


Includes everything the Confident Recruit has to offer...

PLUS daily access to Coach Shay, which includes:

FREE SoccerCruit account for 1 year

Daily communication access with Coach Shay

Weekly accountability to ensure results

Individual guidance on ID Camps

Email and Resume Review

*Your daughter will receive 1on1 mentorship for 90 days

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I’m so confident you’ll be amazed by the quality and level of detail throughout this program, I’m offering a 30 day, 100% money back guarantee.

Our guarantee is simple: If your daughter goes through the program for 30 days and you are unhappy with the program or find that it’s not what you expected, show us that she has completed the entire program along with each homework assignment, and we’ll give you every cent of your money back.

She WILL get as much out of this program as she puts into it. I promise, if she follows the program, you’re going to be blown away by the opportunities to get recruited.

We do not guarantee that she will get offers or scholarships from this program. But we do guarantee that if she takes this program seriously and completes ALL the homework, that she will see results in achieving her dream of playing college soccer.


Over the next 12+ weeks, The Confident Recruit will help her shatter her expectations of what she thought was possible.

I’ll show her how to navigate the college recruiting process, so she can stand out in front of college coaches.

 She will be more confident in herself and the possibility of making her dream of playing soccer in college, a reality.

 In this program, she’ll discover how to navigate the recruiting process, so she can:

  • Confidently communicate with college coaches
  • Impress college coaches at tournaments and ID camps
  • Increase her changes of obtaining athletic AND academic scholarships
  • Feel confident that the school she attends is the right school for her

"As a high school freshman, our daughter is working hard toward her goal of playing college soccer. We didn't have a clue on how to help her achieve this goal. Luckily, she has been training with Coach Shay for the past couple of years, and when we found out that Shay was hosting a college recruiting workshop we were super-thrilled. Having recently been through the process and still having many connections at the college level, Shay was able to provide us with so much valuable information as to what to expect and what steps to take at this time. Shay has a wealth of knowledge in this area, and she gave us a step by step plan of attack. As we were driving home from the workshop our daughter was already working on making her dream a reality!"

-Steve Clark

Soccer Dad


"Coach Shay really went step by step through the recruiting process to really help me understand what to do and how to do it as well as the do’s and dont’s. Everything was very easy to understand and being able to have a flexible schedule really helped.  I think in the time we worked together, I have all the knowledge I need and if I do have questions or concerns I can still contact you knowing you’d be very willing to help!"

-Pandora C.

Freshman Soccer Player

Still not sure if this program is for her?

The Confident Recruit is NOT for her if:

  • She only wants to play in college for the money
  • She isn’t willing to work hard
  • She expects to get recruited without doing any real work
  • She wants her parents to do all the work for her
  • She doesn’t take her academics seriously


The Confident Recruit is PERFECT for her if:

  • She loves the game of soccer
  • She is willing to put in 2-3 hours of work per week to get recruited
  • She is ready to take responsibility for her future
  • She works hard in the classroom and takes academics seriously
  • You as a family need direction with how the recruiting process works


When you click the button below you’ll be taken to a checkout page to enter your details.

As soon as your payment goes through she’ll get complete access to ALL the materials that come with The Confident Recruit.

Everything is delivered electronically so she doesn’t have to wait around for the mailman to deliver results. She’ll be able to get started as soon as you hit the submit button.

Once you invest into The Confident Recruit it’s yours forever. No hoops to jump through, no hidden fees, no recurring charges… she gets immediate access for LIFE and the step-by-step system to help her…

•    Confidently identify her top 30 schools
•    Find and be successful when attending ID Camps
•    Confidently email and communicate with college coaches
•    Be evaluated at tournaments
•    Play with confidence in front of college coaches
•    Have a game plan for an academic scholarship

Click the button below to get started,

Coach Shay

Register Now, Spots Are Limited!

Choose from the options below to get instant access

One-Time Payment



Access into the members only area with every resource needed to get recruited

In depth video training on EXACTLY what to do to get recruited

Done for you email and resume templates

Dedicated email support

Get Instant Access

1on1 Mentorship add-on


Includes everything the Confident Recruit has to offer...

PLUS daily access to Coach Shay, which includes:

FREE SoccerCruit account for 1 year

Daily communication access with Coach Shay

Weekly accountability to ensure results

Individual guidance on ID Camps

Email and Resume Review

*Your daughter will receive 1on1 mentorship for 90 days

Get Instant Access

Frequently Asked Questions

Listening to that little voice in your head that’s asking you over and over: “Will this work? Is this the answer? What if it doesn’t work for my daughter?"  is not the best way to look at an investment that could potentially transform your daughter’s future.

Here’s the thing, the investment you’re about to make in The Confident Recruit isn’t just any ordinary investment – its an investment into your daughters future (and potentially yours too).

I can’t promise that this program will have college coaches chomping at the bit to offer your daughter a scholarship – only she has control over that.

What I can promise is that the content I teach in this program and the resources I provide, will dramatically increase your daughter’s chances of being recruited if she follows through.

All you have to do is click the button above to get started. You’ll be taken to a checkout page where you'll enter your details to start your order.

 Once you submit your details, you’ll receive instant access to The Confident Recruit. Click the button above to get started.

Yes! you have option to obtain 1on1 daily help from Coach Shay for 90 days by selecting the 1on1 Mentorship add-on from the payment options above. 

We will use a communication platform called Voxer where your daughter will have access to Coach Shay Sunday-Thursday.

 By receiving 1on1 help, Coach Shay will also review your daughter's emails and resumes before she sends them out to coaches.

As an added bonus, she will receive free access to SoccerCruit for 1 year in order to streamline her communication throughout her recruiting journey.

This will allow your daughter to see the quickest results possible.

SoccerCruit is an online platform that allows players to send and track emails to college coaches, manage recruiting opportunities, create an online soccer resume, find top colleges, and more.

By signing up for the 1on1 Mentorship you're daughter will get a free account for one year. From there, Coach Shay can manage her account in order to view her resume and emails, assign tasks, view her progress, and more.

No! The Confident Recruit is a one-time payment, instant-access program. With your one-time purchase of The Confident Recruit or the 1on1 Mentorship add-on, you have access to the whole program immediately - FOR LIFE!

It really matters to me that you feel you’re making a great investment in your daughter’s future, and I want to make sure you have all the information you need to confidently say yes to this program.  If you have a question that isn’t answered above you can contact me here and I'll get back to you within 24 hours!


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